Not that this is a bad thing. We decided we'd go there around 3:45, and I wasn't ready until 5:00 or so. After making him wait that long, a little wait on my side is simply fair.
However, it seemed a little longer than normally would occur, and apparently I looked a little anxious.
My waiter started bringing drinks, and bread, all very solicitously, and finally told me it would be OK if they didn't show up - he'd have dinner with me.
About then I suddenly realized he was coming on to me. Apparently I now successfully confuse gaydar.
I mean, he was cute, but the equipment just wouldn't thrill me.